by skimhenson | Jul 22, 2021 | Dead for a Decade, On The Other Side of Trying Hard
“There is no solution to our emotions except to feel them, even the hard ones, especially the hard ones.” I figured out one more thing – the most difficult and the most healing – while walking through a decade of deadness. I had to get out of my crazy head and deal...
by skimhenson | Jul 21, 2021 | Dead for a Decade, On The Other Side of Trying Hard
“It’s hard to save the world when you can’t save yourself.” Author Carrie Jones (Some references at the beginning are from the past couple of blog posts.) Hearing the saying for myself – “a turn of events” – left me questioning how to...
by skimhenson | Jul 20, 2021 | Dead for a Decade, On The Other Side of Trying Hard
“Don’t let this be the last page of your story, but the start of your next chapter.” Jennifer Betts I couldn’t tell you what was so wrong either. Neither could my mom even though she threatened suicide more than once. Her bent toward that option made me...
by skimhenson | Jul 19, 2021 | Dead for a Decade, On The Other Side of Trying Hard
“Even our darkest thoughts will never separate us from the love of God. He is with us in the wilderness, and He is with us as we wrestle with our brokenness.” Kayla Stoecklein from Fear Gone Wild: A Story of Mental Illness, Suicide, and Hope Through Loss When I read...
by skimhenson | Jul 15, 2021 | Dead for a Decade, On The Other Side of Trying Hard
“Life is only a long and bitter suicide, and faith alone can transform this suicide into a sacrifice.” Franz Liszt Anytime someone commits suicide, people ask, “What was so wrong that they’d kill themselves?” A family member asked the same thing when he found out I...
by skimhenson | Jul 14, 2021 | Dead for a Decade, On The Other Side of Trying Hard
“The tragedy of life is not death but what we let die inside of us while we live.” Norman Cousins Just like denial doesn’t work, neither does deadening parts of us that we don’t like, can’t accept, or can’t change. It’s damaging at best, deadly at its worst. The...